Positive Thinking is more than Emotion
What is Emotional Fitness vs Positive Thinking
Has positive thinking made our lives better? Is it because of our biography and what so many are taught to believe? Is it really something magical or mystical? The challenge could be emotional fitness! How emotionally fit are you in your relationships? Business or Personal. Are you aware that it has nothing to do with positive thinking? It is true. You have to take some sort of action.
Everyone is made up of different patterns……patterns like depression, passion, happy, sad, and each one can be changed with simple, common sense when necessary. Our emotions are what we are, what our patterns are largely made of. So, does this mean positive thinking is bad? Not at all.
What it really comes down to is making that shift and changing it. See it as it is right now. Tell the truth but don’t make it worse than it is! Behavior and our emotional fitness come down to addiction and trading one for another. Everything comes down to your emotional fitness……….the difference in your life comes down to this. Don’t make it worse than it is. Positive thinking works if you take action with your thoughts. IT IS NOT MAGIC!
Discipline never works long term.
You need to Shift from having to do something to WANTING to do something. Postive thinking requires discipline.
When things are not working out and you don’t want to feel that sense of failure we tend to make things out to be worse than they are in our minds. Don’t go there. Don’t make it so it is impossible to change. Just be truthful to yourself. Tell it as it is. Do the positive thinking thing BUT take the actions you need to take to make it happen.
- See it as it is ( be honest)
- See it better than it is. (where do you want to be)
- Make it the way you see it. ( take the action steps needed to change)
If your future is not more compelling than it is right now, you will not reach it. Without a vision, we perish……..Keep it simple so you can implement the changes.
My eyes were opened up this morning!
Just as Tony Robbins isn’t into positive thinking to make things happen, neither am I. Wow, did that feel good. Imagine running around feeling like a loser because everyone is telling you to think positive and it will happen……..and then it Doesn’t!! I was always afraid to say anything for fear of being ridiculed for not believing or being seen as a negative Nelly. But I was and I am positively realistic! You cannot just wish something into being! There I said it.
What the heck is so wrong with telling it as it is. The Reality is Real and Truth is the reality. This is how it is today and this is what I need to do to change the patterns I created. Take the actions necessary to reach where you are wanting to be in your life. Remember to KEEP IT SIMPLE SWEETIE!!
Be The Exception!
We do have the power to change ourselves, our circumstances, relationships, and business ventures. It is all about you Making Your Life the way YOU SEE IT! Stay Truthful to you and master your own emotions. Go to your inner Gym, Get Emotionally Fit! Take Action.
This is all ‘Nice’ but what does it have to do with Marketing?
If you have ever struggled with finding what it is you want to do then the above relates. Without all the mumbo jumbo and fancy words and meditation tricks, it comes down to a couple of sure fires things. You don’t need to know what a niche is. You don’t need to know all the different versions of ‘Marketing’. You do however need to be determined, a little impulsive, just not too much, and really excited to create more for you and your family. You must take the first steps
You must take the first steps. You can’t just think it you have to do it!! All the books and all the words and all those fancy guru guys won’t be able to make it happen. Not unless you combine it all with your own actions to make it happen. It happened when I took control back in my life and the circumstances around it. It can be the same for you.
Where ever you may be in the world, what ever you are choosing to be or do wouldn’t it be cool if you knew without a shadow of a doubt there was a way to make it better? There is a FREE resource you can take advantage of to learn the how and some of the why to set up a website ( which here is free) for your business now/ your wannabe home business, or for MLM’ers using Social Media and failing. It makes no never mind if it is M.L.M. or Affiliate Marketing or your own products that you created. This is where you will find the help, the honesty, and the real people to care about you.
I would love to hear your thoughts on this. It is always so interesting to know how others interpret these kinds of belief systems. I don’t think there is any right or wrong way. It is what feels right in your life that counts. I look forward to reading your thoughts and thank you for being here today. That alone is important. Be awesome and if you can do this, would love love love you to share or like us! Yup, Social Icons are one click wonders!